If you’ve recently split and decided being single is not all it’s cracked up to be. There are a couple thing that you simply must not do if you have designs to get your ex back. Most people fall into the trap of doing these no-no’s and ruin any chance they have.

1 – Do not lie about your ex

This one will kill any chances of getting your ex back stone dead. Turn the situation around and imagine they were spreading lies about you. I know I would be mortified if my recent ex was doing this. If that happened to me there’s no way I’m getting back with my ex.

2 – Making them feel jealous

Although this can work to a certain extent if used right. But it won’t work if they know you want them back and are desperate to get back together. This can backfire big time. The jealousy you are looking for may turn to revulsion and they then know it’s over for good.

3 – Behaving like a stalker

We shouldn’t even have to say anything about stalking but just in case we do. The best you can hope for is to be seen as desperate and needy. That doesn’t help you at all. The worst you can be seen is downright frightening and potentially dangerous. This could easily lead to an arrest and I don’t think I need to tell you what that’ll do for your chances.

4 – Getting revenge on your ex

If you are harbouring thoughts of revenge then you must ask yourself how badly you want to get your ex back. If you are prepared to do the dirty on them in any way at all you can’t really love them as much as you think. You simply don’t hurt the one you love.

5 – Pestering them with calls or texts

Now even though this could fall into the stalker bracket it’s a different ball game altogether. You could seriously drive your ex round the bend with this text torture. The last thing you want is to be seen as a text pest. They may just ignore your calls but they may take it further and change their number. Then you’ve lost them forever.

So, we now know a few things not to do if you want to get your ex back. There’s lots of things you can do to help your situation but those aren’t any of them.

If you want my advice, use the next few weeks to take some time out and get your emotions firmly in check Get your head in shape and you have a far better chance of getting your ex back.

I used a step by step system to get my wife back when I was going through a bad breakup.

Getting your ex back is a choice, not a chance.

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