Troubled relationship signs for couples

All is far in love and war.  What does that saying really mean?Are they presuming that the two are very similar?  I am not sure if that is what they are saying but there are similarities between the two.

The similarities between the two I think are when that love becomes war.There could still be love for the two of them, but they are usually in a battle like it is a war.  I have seen this first hand doing couples counseling San Diego.  A once loving couple is now fighting constantly.It is my objective to help bring peace between the two people.And to bring back that once great love between the two.

So what are the signs of trouble?One of the warning signs that is a huge sign is the lack of communicating.  Or should I say lack of communication.For practically all relationships, knowing how to communicate is essential.Since it is so important, if in your relationship you start to see that you are not being able to communicate it is a sign.  It is a warning sign of trouble.  Whether I am doing couples counseling or as a marriage counselor in San Diego I see it all the time.Because in essence if the couple is not able to communicate, any little problem can turn into a big problem.  Proper communication helps avoid that.

So as a family therapist San Diego one of the biggest things I do is try to teach the couple how to communicate.One of the biggest secrets to effective communicating is being able to listen.  People think of communication as talking to each other.But truthfully if you are unable to listen very well, you won’t really be able to understand each other.  So by helping the couple listen better their communication improves greatly.

By being able to recognize a sign like that, a couple will be better able to spot trouble starting.  If a couple is able to recognize this in their relationship early they can avoid problems. From what I have witnessed, the optimum way to solve some problems is to completely avoid them.But if you don’t spot that sign early, the prime way to solve the problem is to learn how to communicate.Sounds basic but what it can do is have a major role in the problem.

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